It happened to me today. Taxes. That is what started it. Don't you just hate this time of year when you are pressured to have your taxes done. I pay me taxes, that's not the problem, but I'm not the most organized person and I always have to search to find everything I need.
That's when it happened. I found an account that I was being charged for. I looked in bewilderment at the statement. How could they charge me while they are using my money. I feel like I have been robbed. Why didn't I notice it before? 10 years. That's how long it's been happening...and I was never observant enough to see it.
That's when the ugliness came out I blamed my husband. Why you ask? I file the statements. My husband never even opens them. Ever... He pays the monthly bills. I never see these bills. I want to share in this responsibility. He says he wants me to be a part of paying them too. But it never happens. It seems like a secret that I'm not involved in.
I ended up making him cry. The ugliness came out. Does it ever come out in you?